Muri Afrika, abagore benshi baratinya kuvuga ivyerekeye amabanga mpuzabitsina kubera ari ikinyegezwa mu mibano, Guhuza ibitsina : “Hari abagabo bibaza ko nsoba mu gitanda” – Ingeneye , umugore w’iriba, umugore unyara cyane
Gusohora ku mugore rero n’ukurekura amazi mu gihe yegereje canke mu gihe co kurangiza.
Birashoboka ko hariho abatarabimenya. N’abagore bararangiza. Ugusohora ku mugore rero n’ukurekura amazi mu gihe yegereje canke mu gihe co kurangiza.
Ku bagore benshi, ayo mazi asohoka ari make. Ariko ku bandi, aba ari menshi cane, akirasa ari menshi gushika nko kuyangana na 300 ml (hafi ica gatatu c’iritiro), nk’uko bivugwa n’abahinga ku magara y’abagore.
Ni na ho havuye ijambo “femme fontaine” [umugore w’iriba]. Nk’uko bivugwa na Dr Vanessa Adrienne Kouatchouang Njewel, umuganga w’ibijanye n’imibonano mpuzabitsina, umuganga w’amagara y’abantu mu karere k’ubuvuzi ka Bangue i Douala mu gihugu ca Cameroun, umugore w’iriba bisigura “umugore, mu gihe c’ukuryoherwa cane (canke ariko ararangiza), arekura amazi menshi.
Uwo muganga agira ati: “Ni nk’uko umubiri wiwe woba uriko uramubwira ‘Uragaba, birarenze urugero!’ mu gihe ariko ararangura imibonano mpuzabitsina. Ivyo kenshi bijana n’uburyohe bwa cane.”
Yongerako ko ubwo buryohe bugenda butandukana ku mugore ku wundi kuko umubiri wose ufise uko umera iyo uwukuyakuye, ivyo rero co kimwe n’ibindi bijanye no guhuza ibitsina, birisa kuri buri mugore.
“Bamwe bavyumva nk’umupfunda w’uburyohe burenze, mu gihe abandi bumva barengewe n’uburyohe bukwi na bukwi ata n’isano bifitaniye no kurangiza. Ubwo buryohe rero bushobora guhindagurika: kuri umwe, ubwo buryohe bushobora ukwumva ingene uriko uraryoheewa, ku wundi umubiri ukigeza gutyo mu buryo busa n’uko atawumenya ingene bije”
Rero n’ico kinyegezwa abagabo bamwe bamwe badatahura, abandi bashaka kumenya, bakipfuza abagore bafise amazi nk’uko Fanta abivuga.
Kuvyibonako ubwa mbere, amasoni n’uburyohe
Abahinga barahuza mu kwemeza ko gusohora amazi atari mvukanwa ku mugore
Abahinga barahuza mu kwemeza ko gusohora amazi atari mvukanwa ku mugore. Uko imisi igenda ni ko umugore agenda avyibonako, kandi kenshi na kenshi, ntibihimbaye kubibamwo mu ntango.
Dr Kouatchouang Njewel agira ati: ” Uko bimaze kugaragara, benshi mu bagore bashobora kubibona uko bagenda bakora imibonano mpuzabitsina, urugero baryoherwamwo n’ingene biyumva ku giti cabo. Si ibintu vyiharijwe n’abagore bamwe bamwe, ahubwo n’inyishu ishoboka kuva ku bituma nko kubaho neza, kuruhuka hamwe n’urugero rwo kubishuhira.”
Fanta, akora akazi k’imibonano mpuzabitsina, yagiye kuvyibonako ashikanye imyaka 30, n’aho yatanguye ako kazi akiri muto. Ivyo bikaba bisigura ko yatanguye gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina akiri muto cane, ariko ntiyamenya ko afise amazi.
Fanta agira ati: “N’aho maze kuryamana n’abagabo benshi mu buzima bwanje, nagiye kubona ivyo bintu kuri jewe ntevye cane. Hari igihe naja Accra tujanye n’umuntu w’umugabo. Bwari bubaye ubwa mbere kandi umugabo anshimishije, anankorera ibintu ntazopfa nibagiye.”
Yongerako ati: “Turi mu mibonano, narabonye ko hari amazi ariko aransohokamwo ari menshi, yari nk’imbizi idudubiza, ariko muri ico gihe nyene nariko ndaryoherwa cane, birengeje, imbere y’uko numva amasoni imbere y’uwo mugabo na we nari najobetse”.
Nk’uko abivuga, uwo mugabo yabanje kwiyumvira ko ari amasobe(inkari). Ariko ayo mazi ntiyanuka. “Ku mugoroba twaciye dutaha i Lomé, ntiyasubiriye kundondera na rimwe.”
Abandanya avuga ko rwabaye urukundo rw’akanya gato kubera uwo mugabo atashimye ivyabaye. “Nibaza ko, kuri we, atatahuye ingene umukobwa akuze nka nje agisoba mu gitanda. Ikibabaje gusumba, muriko murahuza ibitsina”, uko ni ko yadusiguriye, ariko yongerako ko ubu aticuza.
Yaragize amahirwe yo kugwa ku mugabo amukunda cane inyuma y’amezi make, yipfuza kumenya igituma asoba mu buriri iyo ariko arakora imibonano mpuzabitsina.
Fanta agira ati: “Ni ho umuganga yatubarira ko ari ibisanzwe ivyo binshikira kandi ko atari amasobe. Uwo mugabo ntiyasubiye kumvirira amaze kumenya ivyo ari vyo. Arakunda kundaba ndiko ndarekura amazi, cane cane kuraba uburyohe burenze mba mfise mu maso no ku mubiri wanje wose.”
Kuzana amazi n’ukutigumya?